mercredi 13 mai 2015

After Being Brutally Attacked By An Ex, This Woman Is Set To Marry The EMT Who Saved Her Life

A Florida woman who suffered a brutal attack from an ex-boyfriend in early 2012 received an amazing surprise this week from the man who saved her.

In recognition of her work as a dating and domestic violence advocate since her recovery, Melissa Dohme was invited to throw out the first pitch at Monday night's Tampa Bay Rays baseball game against the New York Yankees. The moment became even more exciting than she had expected when the baseball she was handed read "Will you marry me?"




Her new fiancé, Cameron Hill, is an EMT and one of the first responders who helped her after she was stabbed more than 30 times by an ex-boyfriend in January 2012.

"I felt myself dying so ... I couldn't really breathe ... I felt myself, I really was not going to make it. I really said 'this is it,'" she told CBS News last year about the attack.

Hill didn't know her before the incident, but recalls having a feeling that he would see her again, the Tampa Bay Times reported.

Hill and another first responder showed up to see Dohme speak at a church later that year, and he made plans to see her again.

"I was weirdly giddy," she told the Tampa Bay Times in 2013 for an earlier story about their budding romance. "I had this feeling about him."

Despite the emotional and psychological toll of her attack, they began dating and Dohme found comfort and love with Hill. "When I look back on that night, I can't think of it as all bad anymore because I met Cameron," she told the paper in 2013. "He's the one I've been waiting for. My fairy tale."

"Woke up this morning only to be living my dream!" she posted on her Facebook page Tuesday morning along with a photo of her engagement ring.



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Why Women's Weight Loss 'Advice' Has More To Do With Power Than Health

From the way weight loss and gain is constantly discussed and criticized in society, to the "tips" and "tricks" that are hailed for how best to drop pounds, the current conversation surrounding weight is problematic, according to a recent panel of experts on HuffPost Live.

"Body of Truth" author Harriet Brown told host Nancy Redd that our obsession with weight started around the turn of the 20th century. She discussed an interesting trend in how women in power affect society's standards of beauty:

At every point in history where women sort of gained more political or economic power, that is a time when the body ideals for women narrowed, both literally and figuratively. So in the 1910s to '20s, women were working towards suffrage [and] suddenly we went from a more voluptuous body ideal to the flapper ideal -- very slim, androgynous. In the 1960s with women's liberation and the pill, suddenly we have Twiggy as the ultimate expression of femininity.


Given the complicated social underpinnings of weight standards, it's no wonder that there is such a confusing message on what, exactly, is considered healthy. According to psychologist Deb Burgard, people in thinner bodies are often criticized as having disordered eating, even though their behavior is recommended for weight loss maintainers by the National Weight Control Registry.

"This is where I think we are prescribing for people in higher weight bodies what we diagnose as eating disordered in people who are in thinner bodies," she told Redd. "And I think it's a terrible idea, obviously, since I see all of the fallout from this."

The error is to think we come in one size and that we can read some kind of meaning into that size, said Burgard. Instead, the solution lies in acceptance of body diversity -- even in the face of what Brown called a "toxic" media landscape of unrealistic ideals.

Click here to hear the full conversation on whether our obsession with weight has gone too far.

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Teen Beauty Vlogger Won't Let Blindness Keep Her From Flawlessly Doing Her Makeup

Despite losing her eyesight about two years ago, Lucy Edwards has mastered her daily beauty routine -- no mirror required.

Lucy, 19, lost sight in her right eye when she was 11, BuzzFeed reports. She lost it in her left eye when she was 17. With her sister's support, she was able to come up with a regimen so she could do her makeup without seeing her reflection.

The inspiring beauty vlogger shares her makeup tips on her YouTube channel called YesterdaysWishes. There, her viewers can learn about her favorite products and her special techniques.

"I have my basic routine that I do now when I’m at college," she told BuzzFeed. "If I feel like I’m having a more spotty day, then I add concealer. If I want to contour, I could do that."



Makeup isn’t necessarily something Lucy thinks she needs. For her, it goes a bit deeper.

"Because I’m making myself pretty, it makes me feel better about myself on the inside," she said. "I know the media has a lot of rubbish about whether you need makeup and so on -- I don’t think I need it especially, but it’s just a thing that makes me feel good about myself. It makes me feel like I’m in control."

Aside from beauty videos, Lucy offers her viewers more information on what it means to be blind. In the past, she’s offered tips for people who are blind or visually impaired and recently explained cataracts as part of her “What Is” series. Lucy said she’s happy to be a resource for such a community.



"The YouTube community for blind beauty bloggers is small," she said. "When I was plunged into blindness, there were no resources for this kind of thing [beauty], and it took me hours and hours to learn how to do my makeup."

Thanks to her and her awesome videos, others won’t have to do the same.

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How Ronda Rousey Fought Back After She Discovered Her Boyfriend Secretly Took Nude Photos

Just like she does during her fights, Ronda Rousey took control the moment she discovered her then-boyfriend had secretly taken nude pictures of her.

In an interview with Opie Radio on SiriusXM Monday to promote her new book, My Fight/Your Fight, UFC bantamweight champion Rousey said she was working social media on her boyfriend's computer before a 2012 Strikeforce bout when she noticed that his download preview was loaded with pictures of "ass."

She then saw herself naked in private moments. A furious Rousey dubbed the soon-to-be-ex "Snappers McCreepy" and immediately took action by posing for provocative but tasteful nude photos for ESPN The Magazine's 2012 Body Issue.

"After I got out of there and dealt with that situation," she said, "the better way to do it is just like, 'You know what? If there's naked pictures out there, I'm going to go take naked pictures myself and I'm going to put it out there on my terms.'"

But that wasn't the only way Rousey fought back. She also deleted his hard drive.

Take that, Snappers McCreepy.

H/T Fox Sports

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Britney Spears And Iggy Azalea's 'Pretty Girls' Music Video Is Bonkers

Britney Spears and Iggy Azalea finally released the music video for "Pretty Girls," which they were seen filming last month. It features crimped hair, jorts, leopard crop tops and '80s-style neon. The vid is supposedly an homage to the '80s cult classic "Earth Girls Are Easy," starring Jeff Goldblum and Geena Davis, and is, like totally, spot-on.

The duo will perform the track at the 2015 Billboard Music Awards on Sunday.

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Eleni Antoniadou Wants To Change Medicine Forever -- And She's Only 27

Eleni Antoniadou, 27, is an extraordinary young scientist who hopes to change the face of medicine. Named one of Forbes magazine's 30 Under 30 in health care this year, Antoniadou is the co-founder of the startup Transplants Without Donors, which aims to jumpstart the use of lab-generated organs in clinical transplants.

In 2011, she directly contributed to research that enabled the world’s first successful completely artificial organ transplant, helping to craft an artificial trachea for a 36-year-old late-stage cancer patient.

Her burgeoning research career has seen remarkable success at every stage: While continuing her graduate work in regenerative medicine at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, she was selected to participate in courses at the NASA Academy, where she remains a visiting researcher. In 2013, Antoniadou was named Woman of the Year at the 2013 British FDM Everywoman in Technology Awards, and in 2014 was a laureate of the Cartier Women’s Initiative Award for her work in bioengineering.

Despite the well-earned honors she has received -- and her role at NASA -- Antoniadou expresses a remarkably earthbound and focused vision for the future. HuffPost Greece sat down with the pioneering scientist to talk about her work, her passion and her vision for the next decade.

What is it you most hope to personally achieve in the next 10 years?

In the next 10 years, I hope to contribute to the development of artificial organs as an alternative therapy for transplants. At the same time, I hope to contribute to the sensitizing of society to the acceptance of innovative technologies in clinical practice, and the eradication of stereotypes that stem from a lack of knowledge. And personally, the possibility of having or adopting a child would be a daring and exciting undertaking!

What has been the biggest challenge you’ve had to overcome in the past year?

My experiences on humanitarian missions in developing countries, where I met victims of the organ black market in their ruthless battle for survival, have made me completely re-evaluate what a challenge is, on a personal level. However, it is also extremely difficult for me to be a passive observer to the hardships of my dear friends in Greece, which is going through a humanitarian crisis.

Who has been the biggest role model in your adult life?

I avoid making people out to be role models in life because that perspective may garner unrealistic expectations. However, I am always inspired by people who live with kindness, generosity and humility, who honestly recognize their weaknesses but have the courage to envision the world with a potential of infinite choices for all. I think the creation of role models is an endless battle, one which we alone are exclusively called on to fight.

What is a story you wish the media would do a better job of covering?

I believe we need examples of inventiveness, helping others and inspiring others. Because coverage of scientific discoveries in the media are so limited, innovations in science and space exploration become conflated with grand, abstract theories and space-time quandaries. We need to enrich this perception by publicizing the practical applications of scientific discoveries in daily life. For example, how many people know that artificial limbs, devices for ventricular assistance for heart transplants, light transmitting diodes for the therapy of cancer, enriched baby food and water filters are all technologies that were developed as part of space program experimentation?

Which living person do you most admire?

I especially admire the strength and soul of people who have, with courage and determination, overcome important difficulties without altering their character. Some distinctive cases for me are Katie Piper, who was attacked with acid in 2008, and, more recently, the parents of a newborn infant who was unfortunately born brain-dead in Hammersmith Hospital in London and who found the wherewithal to donate their child's organs, saving two child patients (the first infant organ donation, in January 2015).

What advice would you give a young person trying to decide what to do with their life?

To armor themselves with knowledge, to have faith in themselves and adaptability, and to pursue being in an environment that pushes them to evolve.

What are you most thankful for?

I am extremely grateful for my health and the love which I have received from my family, but mostly to people unknown to me, whose generosity has galvanized my faith in a better future.

Where do you get your news from?

Apart from The Huffington Post (I am part of their microcosm of bloggers, after all!), I try to filter the barrage of information that comes from sources and social media. I suffer from information overload!

What is the cause or issue that you are most interested in seeing solved over the next 10 years?

I would be happy if, through technological innovations, we could ensure access to pharmaceutical and medical care and knowledge to all people around the Earth.

What is the first thing you do when you wake up in the morning?

I open the window, take a deep breath and look at the sky.

What do you do to de-stress, recharge and stay balanced?

Depending on the circumstances, I walk by the sea, I fall in the arms of the people I love, I listen to beautiful melodies and I read beloved books.

Finish this sentence: In the year 2025, we will… ?

…have equal rights and obligations among all people without stereotypes and prejudices; we will have managed to fix genetic anomalies in infants through stem cell transplants before they are even born; we will have founded clinical centers to transplant artificial organs of partial complexity and we will have sent a manned space mission further than the International Space Station.

What current trend do you think we'll look back on in ten years in disbelief?

I believe 2025 will mark a transitional period for the complete or partial adoption of innovative technologies where it will be considered absurd for driving to be allowed in overpopulated city centers.

The weight of domestic work will be placed on robotic assistants which will execute them with exactitude and swiftness, improving quality of life.

It will be unthinkable to not have a medical file for every citizen that comes with preventative checks for possible predisposition factors.

The adoption of the applications of regenerative medicine, bio-nanotechnology and the capability to store stem cells in statutory bio-banks will mark the realization of individualized therapies designed specifically for each patient, thus negating the need for generalized clinical practices that are only partially effective.

How many hours of sleep do you get each night? How important has sleep been in your life?

Of course sleep is especially important; it is the source of our energy and food for our imagination! Because I have studied the circadian rhythm and its effect on our health and the cycle of sleep-wake of astronauts, I try to adhere to scientific directives! I usually go to sleep at 1 a.m. and wake up and 7 a.m.

What do you value the most?

What I value the most is the kindness that stems from those who have a great supply of love for, and the will to help, others; for those who sacrifice their self-interest to help a stranger, and can embrace any version of man.

This piece was originally published on HuffPost Greece and was translated into English. It was adapted for an American audience.

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Jimmy Fallon Weighs The Pros And Cons Of 'The Dad Bod'

It's the hottest thing since fanny packs.

There's a new trend sweeping the nation and it's called "The Dad Bod." Basically, it's when a guy has sort of a rounded, untoned physique often associated with drinking beer and eating pizza. And apparently, many women find this to be attractive.

On "The Tonight Show" Tuesday, Jimmy Fallon went through the pros and cons of having a "Dad Bod." No, really, hear him out, there are good things about having this baby-like physique.

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